How to Talk to a Loved One About Moving to Senior Living

Before the conversation

• Agree among family members first.
• Gather facts: falls, missed medications, driving concerns.
• Learn the options — read assisted living vs. nursing home.

Conversation starters

• "What would make life easier for you right now?"
• "If something happened at night, how would you get help?"
• "I worry when I can't reach you. Can we look at options together?"

What to avoid

• Ultimatums or surprise announcements
• Talking about your loved one as if they aren't there
• Arguing about every detail in one sitting

When they say no

• Acknowledge feelings: "I know this home means everything to you."
• Offer choices: tour without commitment, try a respite stay.
• Ask a trusted doctor, pastor or friend to join.
• Consider in-home help as a first step — see respite care options.

If safety is at risk

When there is immediate danger, use our Crisis Intake form or call (513) 226-9052.